These men want someone who isn’t damaged by their exs…but the ones that aren’t damaged, are usually the ones who did the damage…besides, to successfully date a damaged person, u have to be up for the chase…because being damaged emotionally causes people to put walls up!!..but niggas want it all to…
These men want someone who isn’t damaged by their exs…but the ones that aren’t damaged, are usually the ones who did the damage…besides, to successfully date a damaged person, u have to be up for the chase…because being damaged emotionally causes people to put walls up!!..but niggas want it all to be easy, so they give up trying when their efforts seem pointless..and they end up leaving that damaged person upset, confused, alone, and feeling even more damaged(not a good feeling at ALL, I’ve been there!)..but don’t blame it all on the damaged one…cuz it’s not his/her fault that life fucked him/her up!..if u really want to be with them..then u HAVE to be able to work with them and not give up on them.. knocking those walls down and giving them reasons to trust you..cuz once u get those walls down, don’t be surprised when u find that person u were looking for on the other side!!..don’t get upset and abandon someone because they don’t know how to, and don’t have much reason to, get over their past!..how can someone get over a past that’s becomes repetitious through different people…including u…that makes it current…and u have to really ask urself..”what am I doing to take his/her mind off of his/her past?”…ask urself if ur causing flash-backs, or flash-forwards…who wants to be with someone that hurts them the same way their ex did and then gets upset and says things like “stop blaming me for what ur ex did”..maybe they will when u stop acting like their ex…just sayin..
It’s 4am and I’m just chillin listening to music when all of a sudden my phone starts to ring. I pick up & it’s HIM. HIM says; “hey babe sorry to be calling so late but where are you at ?” Me: “I’m home and you realize it’s 4am right what’s up ?” HIM: “yeah Ikno but where is home?” Me: ” In Brooklyn… You know that already. The whole time I’m like what the hell is going on for him to be questioning me about my whereabouts at 4am. Him : “Can I come over if you don’t mind Ikno it’s late but I really wanna see you I just need to hold you and fall asleep.” Me : “Awww!!!! Yeah you can come babe just let me know when your downstairs.” Time passes buy and a hour later it’s now 5 am. My phone rings again and he lets me know to come meet him downstairs. We get to the apartment and he just starts hugging me and holding me tight. HIM: “I really hate not being around you I miss you.” Me: ” (starts smiling) I miss you to. We kiss & we walk to the room & he undresses as do I. He gets in the bed and asked me to lay next to him and go to sleep. He grabs me and holds me tight kisses me on the forehead and we both fall asleep. We awake around 12 & he remembers he has something to do. He gets dressed and asked so you gonna walk me out? I told him no I don’t want you to go, but I get up anyway and start walking him to the door. He hugs me and kisses me & ask why am I so beautiful in the morning. Me: (just smiles at him in his green eyes). HIM: I’ll call you later k and kissed me again and left. My brother is up around this time and he heard everything and he asked why aren’t we together yet & I tell him idk honestly everything between us is so perfect I just don’t know the answer to that question. He says ” Hmmm well I like him he’s cool and I can tell he really likes you to come out here at 4am just to hold you and sleep.” I decided to text HIM & why aren’t we together yet? His response was “taking it one step at a time I like it like this😘 “